What if you could fully embrace your family, receiving the greatest gift you could ever receive which is the gift of life? What if you could hand back the burdens or issues that you have been carrying that were passed down through the generations, would your life look any different?

Part of the work that I do is based on what I will refer to as the Orders of Love. These orders are part of a natural phenomenon that occurs within a family system.

The first order is that everyone has the right to belong in the family. Anyone who has been excluded from the family needs to be re-included in order for the health and well being of the individual and their family.

The second order is that of equal give and take. This means that the responsibility of the parent is to give love to their children and the responsibility of the child is to take that love.

The third order of love is that everyone has his or her place. Having a place has nothing to do with dominance rather this is how this particular approach to family systems work. When everyone is in their place, everyone knows their role. The “proper” placement is that the father is to the right, the mother to the left of him and the oldest child to the left of his/her mother. When people are out of their place within the family it creates chaos and disorder.

I invite you to imagine in your mind’s eye those within your family that have been excluded, whether there is the equal give and take and if everyone is in their place. By simply becoming aware of this, one can begin to bring balance back into their system.

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